If you’re struggling with relationship doubts, don’t ignore them.
There’s a reason why you’re feeling this way, and it’s important to get to the bottom of it.
Now, let me first say that sometimes our feelings of doubt are rooted in anxiety about the future (aka the unknown). Those are natural feelings and I would encourage you to speak with your partner about those feelings. You might be surprised that they have them too!
But what if your feelings of doubt are rooted in the recent (or continuing) behaviors of your significant other?
- Should you confront them (yet again)?
- Should you accept them?
- Should you leave your relationship?
- Seek couples counseling?
- Seek private personal counseling?
They’re all good options.
But there’s something even more important that must first be addressed.
Because without addressing it, you’re going to find yourself in the same problem again, again and again…
And the only thing that will be different, is that it will be with someone new.
2 Questions that Will Change Your Life & Relationship
Your answer to these 2 questions will tell me a lot about your love life regardless of what you’re experiencing.
Question #1: Are you 100% clear on the type of relationship you wish to create?
Question #2: Are you 100% committed to creating this relationship?
What I find is that people fall into 1 of 2 categories.
The first group does not have a vision for what they’re trying to create. They simply accept whatever comes their way and if it feels good in the moment they go with it. This is also known as settling.
The second group has a vision, but is not committed to creating this reality.
- They know what they want
- They can articulate what they want
- They believe they deserve what they want
But for some reason, they continually allow the opposite of what they want into their lives.
A good indicator of this is when people say “I keep dating the same person.” This is because they know what they want… continue repeating patterns that are attracting the same type of person.
So what’s the solution?
How does someone attract the type of person that’s best suited for them?
It starts with CLARITY.
I would argue that when someone has true clarity, then commitment comes easily.
Once We’re Clear & Committed – Our Goals Become Inevitable
It’s amazing what happens when we get clear and committed to our goals. I’ve seen many of my clients manifest what they call a “miracle” occurring in their life.
And I believe you can have the same.
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